Question: How do you say no instead of ghosting?

What do you say before ghosting someone?

More assertive as in the old Its not you, its me routine? It really is about you, so own it. Practice honest, clear, nonnegotiable statements like I know Ive been fading out lately, and Im sorry. But right now I just dont have the energy to connect as often as I think you want. Full stop.

How do you politely call someone for ghosting?

“Hey, you should know that I feel hurt/disrespected/dismissed because you ghosted on me. The polite thing to do would have been to simply tell me that you werent interested in seeing me again. Leaving me or anyone wondering is worse.

How do you end something nicely?

DO:Think over what you want and why you want it. Take time to consider your feelings and the reasons for your decision. Think about what youll say and how the other person might react. Have good intentions. Be honest — but not brutal. Say it in person. If it helps, confide in someone you trust.

Is it ghosting if you havent met?

A lot of people will match with someone on a dating app, exchange a few messages, and then claim they got ghosted. The general consensus seems to be that if you match with someone and they stop talking to you, even if its immediately, thats ghosting. I dont think you can be ghosted by someone youve never met.

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