Hes trying to take things slowly. If youve just started dating and hes blowing hot and cold with you, he might just be trying to pace things. He might be worried that if you rush things or see each other too much in the early days, things will burn out quickly and itll be over before it can really start.

What to do when he is playing hot and cold?

1. Mirror him and go cold too.Show him that you are capable of living your best life without him.Text him back slower or ignore him.Tune down your presence on social media.Make sure you are keeping track of your own emotions and feelings when he goes cold on you.16 Feb 2020