Chlipala recommends waiting at least a couple months. It doesnt have to be exact, but I recommend dating someone for two to three months before you think about exclusivity, she says. It gives you enough time for some of the infatuation to wear off and for patterns to emerge.
How long should you date before coming official?
The two month rule. While of course its different for everyone, according to relationship psychologist and data analyst Claire Stott, 2 months is an optimum amount of time for the average couple to date before they start a relationship.
How long does it take to become exclusive?
Well, it looks like you two will become an official item quite soon: According to a new study, most couples become exclusive after four weeks of dating. Not to put a timer on anything; but, well… maybe its worth keeping in mind.
When to ask a guy where the relationship is going?
If you have got to a point in which you are seeing someone but you arent sure if he or she has titled the relationship, the relationship is monogamous, or any other question that clarifies if the relationship aligns with your current goals in life and love, then it is your right to ask!